Trans life revisited

[hankhavelock]

It's hardly a secret here that I salute transsexuality as one of the most honest ways to "be who you are". And I simply do not buy the pseudo psychological terms trying to "explain" transsexuality as some sort of crazy syndrome.

When a trans*woman asks me why I'm attracted to girls like her, I normally reply "why are you a trans*woman?" and that tends to stop a futile debate before it begins. As little as she can explain to me why she is trans, as little I can explain why I find her attractive because of her transsexuality.

I believe that instead of being aware of the strangeness of trans*life we should learn to focus on the beauty of it.

If you read back in my old posts here I've never tried to give ppl an improper approach to trans*life that screws up their existing way of thinking. I do provoke though. When I find a reason. But my point remains to do the best I can for the transcommunity.

H