A gender ignorant world... is that really funky?

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

But Trans* woman / cis* man success stories seem as elusive as rainbows. But I keep giving it a try... I must like rainbows.

No, honey... they are there and that is the right way...

There are so many cis* men out there who are just afraid to choose what they really want. It takes time to educate them and to make them feel at ease with them selves.

I'm rare, in as much that I didn't keep my new-found love a secret - I actually screamed it out loud because I was proud of it... proud of finding myself. And nothing makes me more warm and proud and strong and everything than holding my sweet trans-woman close to me. It's a bond... it's like being HOME. I hope I make sense...

I may have lost my ability to truly commit - maybe because I've been too much of a bloody playboy, but my deep, deep love for THAT trans-woman remains, and eventually I will find her and live with her ever after.

But the thing is, that I cannot be less picky. I cannot in all fairness say that being a trans-woman gives her a "free ride" (excuse my French). Yes, I want a trans-woman, but i also want a life partner who can match me and with whom I can truly enjoy all aspects of living.

I expect as much from a trans-woman as I do from a non-trans-woman - her transsexuality is divine, but in the end creating a relationship is based on total mutual mental and sexual attraction. In the end no-one can build a relationship solely based on her or his gender identificatition.

But you're still my Goddess, Missy B :-)

Kisses!

H