A gender ignorant world... is that really funky?

[hankhavelock]

In one thread Missy B (aka Bionca) mentioned that it would be almost impossible for her to go out, find a guy, both getting attracted, both falling in love, both getting married and then living happily ever after without a single word of transsexuality said...

Yes, THAT would be impossible, I'm sure... however, I don't believe it's impossible to have just as deep a relationship as cisgender folks have...

But my question is:

Would a completely gender ignorant world be preferable?

(in Missy B's favorite bar)

Missy B: "Hi I'm Bionca..."
H: "Wouw, you're hot, baby..."
Missy B: "Ok, enuff talking... let's go..."

DING DING DING (church bells six months later - now in wedding bed)

Missy B: "Rhmmm, you know I'm a trans, right, darling?"
H: "A what, sweetheart"
Missy B: "A trans T-R-A-N-S... you know, a chick with dick..."
H: "A chick-with-dick? Are you drunk, honey? What's a chick-with-dick?"
Missy B: "A woman - with a cock... a trans-woman, you know..."
H: "Yes, ofcourse you have a penis - what on earth are you talking about sweety? Ofcourse you have a penis... name me one real woman who doesn't..."
Missy B: "But you know... some women don't..."
H: "Yes, the poor darlings - I wonder how they have sex - must be boring..."
Missy B: "But some men and even women actually are attracted to women like that, dear"
H: "Attracted to women without a penis? Yes, I've heard, and honey, I guess we must be open-minded about these things... I'm sure they must have many personal traumas due to their unorthodox sexuality... besides I hear they smell so horribly of fish..."
Missy B: "Yes, I heard so too, darling"
H: "Well, at least we're perfectly normal and only occasionally smell of fish..."
Missy B: "HONEEEYYY!!! Don't SAY that I ever smell of fish!!!"
H: (giggling) "No ofcourse not, sweety! How could you? You're a perfectly normal woman with a perfectly healthy penis! And you know I so adore your sunday morning slight aroma of smekma... You're a goddess, dear"
Missy B: "Thank you, sweetheart... roll over, will you... I need to feed you some of that... smekma... and then some... grrr..."
H: "Be my guest, baby..."

Wouldn't it in the end remove the UNIQUENESS of being a trans-woman and a trans-lover?

Wouldn't it remove some of the excitement?

Just imagine...

H