Do many T-Girls Try Harder To Be Beautiful?

[hankhavelock]

I've been pondering a bit more about this thread, and yes, many trans women try harder than cisgendered women. And usually their efforts bear fruit in the sense that they develop a unique kind of femininity that is so beautiful and endearing.

That said I would like to change focus a little bit. Because it's not always about "trying harder" but rather seizing the moment. It's actually when she is NOT necessarily trying so hard with make up, dresses and so on that she really and truly is most adorable... and vulnerable. When she lets what ever masculinity she has flow freely among her feminine features. When the full specter of what transsexuality really is becomes apparent in a relaxed and safe situation. When she can let her guards down because here she is not threatened...

THAT is when her feminine beauty shines the most, I think. And that is simply so amazingly adorable! When you wake up in the morning and look at her sleeping peacefully and content. No make up, no fancy dresses, maybe even the treacherous morning stubble... you lean over and kiss her softly, she mumbles, opens her eyes and take you in her arms... THAT is when you truly appreciate the treasure that you have...

So do trans women try harder? Maybe, but maybe they don't really have to...

H