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[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by LoverofShemales

Bionca... this could actually be a thread on its own and I think many would agree with you but they don't have the courage to admit it. Many men are too proud and macho to let their guard down for a second and become vulnerable which would in turn show the world who they really are. the sad thing is that the person that they really are is probably a good, decent person who wants to be kind to others. This is not to say that they still wouldn't rather watch a slam bang no holds barred action thriller with lots of violence, swearing and nudity over say... When Harry met Sally but I think you know what I mean.

"I know what u'r thinking, punk... did she "fire" six times or only five... xxx..."

Yep, I definitely LOOOVE some action, especially when combined with a wee bit of romance ;-)

I just never really digged the "pride-thing". I'm NOT with transsexual women because it may be particularly "cool", but F*** it IS cool too... there's nothing better than to arrive at some club (or go to the mall, for that matter) as a couple... and she is a "he". I admit to really enjoying that part... :-) I BASK in the astonished looks from the cisgendered on-lookers when we appear hand-in-hand and openly kissing and enjoying each other in full public. It's BEAUTIFUL! And also very real and very true!

I have never had a trans-gf that I was not truly PROUD to show off and be with.

And I'm not special AT ALL! All you guys can do the same. It's all a matter of having a bit of confidense and to realize that you do what you really like - and remember, the courage that YOU show is NOTHING compared to the guts of a transsexual woman! So respect her and enjoy the fact that she has chosen YOU as her escort - whether it's just for a date or as her companion.

Being with a trans-girl is special! And it's never seized to fill me with awe and pride. It's the same as being with a cisgendered girl in many ways, ofcourse, but it's still SO beautiful and special... it fills you with warmth and pride in a totally unique way. You feel at HOME finally...

Hmmm... oh well... what more can I say? I better shut up :-)

H