desire to be 'educated'

[techno883]

Wonderful site to review how others live and what their likes and loves are. I am not a transgender, femboy or even consider myself gay. Gay curious is as close as I can describe myself. Especially after seeing some photos of the young effeminate men I see here. I would like some answers if possible and if not out of line asking them. It may help a few of us to define the differences before any of us newbies unintentionally insult anyone. And please forgive me if I have insulted anyone by asking these questions now.

1-Do we refer all Trans genders, femboys, traps and CD's as 'She' / 'Her' etc?
2-What ,if any, differences are there between femboys,traps and CD's?
3-Are CD's 'graduated' older femboys, traps?
4-Is there a difference between Traps & Femboys?
5-Is using terms like 'Tranny' instead of Transgender an insult?

Anything else we should be more aware of, please help us out here. With all the beautiful people here, I'd hate to be thrown out of the Trans ladyboy enrollment. I see an available message/mail tab, If some answers are either too difficult to answer here or if too long to post, how do I register for 'mail' to receive longer replies/explanations?