When trans-women complain about being sexualized...

[hankhavelock]

When trans-women complain about being sexualized...

Let there be little doubt that many trans-women complain about the fact that men only want to have sex with them ? only very few men seem honestly interested in deep, meaningful relationships.

Hmmm ? I?m tempted to say: welcome to the reality of womanhood... you really should have considered that as a five-year-old, when you put on your sister?s dress and for the first time knew who you were, sweetheart... :-)

No, seriously and but, obviously, the story goes a little deeper than that.

Because in the end, men attracted to trans-women are fundamentally straight and normally go back to cisgender women due to a host of reasons. Fx societal pressure and not least a natural urge to multiply.

So, for a man attracted to trans-women it suddenly becomes quite complicated to do what he actually truly wants. Yes, a little fling somewhere in a Southeast Asian backstreet is one thing, but then ?mother just called...?

I?m not in any way suggesting that the troubles met by trans-oriented men can at all be compared to the massive and epic adversity that is the constant reality of trans-women (because we men can just hide which most do) ? but as we all know that most men are basically ?pussies? without spines I propose a theory: IF multiplying could be eased up a bit (by easier adoption/surrogate rules) and IF society could accept trans-reality just a little bit more, wouldn?t that be the first step?

Of course, those are ENORMOUS steps if we consider a typical American Midwesterner with an inbred IQ of 35 and ten Bibles as his hetero-modus-operandi.

Let me, however, use myself as an example. I have never, ever kept my sexual orientation a secret ? on the contrary I?ve forced peoples? heads deeply into it (friends, family, clients ? you name it) ? yes, indeed, many have said: Please, too much info, Hankyboy. To me it was never the proverbial ?walk of shame? but instead a deep feeling of honour, true belonging and appreciation of being liked by a transsexual woman ? we both held our heads up high in defiance of what is objectively wrong.

So back to my original point ? it all boils down to a general acceptance of transsexuality as something natural and even beautiful (accepting transsexuality as beautiful is, by the way, difficult for most Western transsexuals too... go figure). And that fight will most likely be fought by transsexuals while most of us trans-oriented men just stand in the back saying nothing ? afraid to be ?found out?. A luxury not granted the trans-women that most of us secretly adore and do not dare stand up for and beside...

I would like to hear opinions from other trans-oriented males.

1. What is it that keeps you closeted?
2. Do you really want a transsexual wife?

It?s time for us men to be men and speak UP for the women we so deeply adore! Or what?

Peace

H