Is anal sex pleasurable?

[Melissa Pink]

I've been enjoying receptive anal sex regularly for about four years. I diddled my tush for years with various objects and toys but was always too inhibited to attempt anal with someone until I began my transition. The first time I gave my ass to a guy it didn't hurt but I didn't cum. I think I was too nervous. The second time I tried it with the same guy later than night I was totally relaxed and had the most incredible total body orgasm. My only regret was waiting so long to give it up! LOL! In my opinion if it hurts then you are doing something wrong! For me the key to pleasurable anal sex is preparation. I make sure I am totally clean and empty "down there" and always engage in plenty of foreplay with fingers and toys before penetration. I used plenty of water based lube like Astroglide and insist my partner(s) wear a condom. I usually like to ride my partner's cock at first unless my sphincter relaxes. That way I can control how much and how quickly they fuck my tight ass. Once I'm relaxed all bets are off and I like all kinds of inovative positions.

Wendy Williams markets a "Anal Trainer" set of three butt plugs that are excellent for anyone interested in exploring this aspect of their sexuality. If you are lucky enough to meet a partner(s) with a big cock don't be intimidated by it. With patience you can train your ass to receive a big cock and enjoy it!

Have fun!