The shemale that started my addiction

Originally Posted by Dhobi

One of the main reasons that Wai stole my heart was that I respected and admired her so - she knew exactly who she was and what she wanted to be and to hell with all the bigots of the world with their small minds - and in those days they were thicker on the ground than they are today - she took all the hoops she was made to jump through with ease - she was Wai and proud of it and I was proud of her and loved walking out with her on my arm and I was proud to be her man and that she was my girl.

Yes, Dhobi, you're absolutly right. And i understand your pride. It's just amazing, the courage it takes ! And the personnality, the temperament. I can't think of anyone in any field or any kind of path life who would need so much dedication, sacrifices and efforts to acheive their goal. Ancient greek poet Pindar said in a verse: "Become who you are !", which seems a pretty mysterious formulation. What does that mean to become what we already are ? But that's what comes to my mind when i think about t-women. Nobody has so much detemination and dedication for oneself, nobody chooses such a hard path against so many odds to be faithfull to oneself and oneself's deep feelings. And i suspect that it's not just to become something, but in fact to acheive what we are all seeking: to feel good about ourselves and to find love to share ! like any human being, but in a such harder way. I know i am humbled by that. So although i haven't had such an experience as yours, i feel close to your story and i'm touched. Wish i could help you somehow... You seem like a good man, buddy.