So, I'm back...

[BlueRaven88]

After a long stint away from the transladyboy forum, I return for another try at finding a transgendered woman for a LTR in Brisbane, Australia. It's insanely hard to find any good sites these days as most are "sex" sites where people go to look for casual hook-ups. Odds are I will have no luck (yet again) on here but I figured it's worth a shot.

After reading a few of the more "current" threads on the site though I gotta say I'm kinda shocked and appalled at people's attitudes. It seems this board has degenerated into nothing but people thinking of transgendered women as sex objects rather than real people and potential relationship candidates/partners. Possibly the biggest thing that stands out is how many people call transgendered women "shemales". Yes, I know I have done so in the past out of ignorance, but trust me people that's no way to make friends. TGirls HATE the term "shemale" because it's a term of the porn industry, so calling them by that name (or tranny, ladyboy, kathoey etc) are really offensive because you're treating them as sexual objects, not people.

I know I'll probably be flamed for this thread, people saying that I'm an idiot and don't know anything etc etc, but I'm speaking the truth - if you go on youtube for example and find transgender channels, there are TONS of videos on this subject. Only the rare minority don't care, and those are the ones that are into random sexual partners anyway. Respect goes a long way.

But I digress. If anyone knows where a guy can meet a nerdy t-girl on the internet these days, hit me up with a link.