Two part question for t-girls and admirers alike.

Originally Posted by randolph

I like your thoughtful perceptive questions. The development of the human embryo as originally female and later on the male genes and hormones kick in to produce a male baby is very important in understanding the male/female aspect of our human nature. I think all of us are still part male and part female.
Outwardly, I am a male and I think like a male but deep inside, I know there is a female essence, the soul if you will. The male ego keeps this female essence suppressed but it is there and can arise if we allow it. It is called Kundalini Yoga in India.

Well that's very interesting... Though my male side isn't very prominent at all. I had to learn to emulate masculine behavior when I was a teenager and was subject to testosterone (witch I hated), but that's about the extent of my masculinity. Though I do still have "masculine interests". I.E.; cars, guns, technology.

Originally Posted by aw9725

Thinking about answering your questions and have enjoyed reading yours and other?s thoughtful responses. This could be a good thread. I know I have already written about this topic somewhere in over 900 posts and don?t want to repeat? Like smc, I make a distinction between genuine ?admirers? and what are known derisively as ?tranny chasers.?

Well I'm glad you enjoyed reading my post... Though I would of liked to of read your thoughts on the matter. I mean if you didn't want to write about it again (witch I understand), you could of at least added a link to the post where you did write about it (if it was on this site that is).

Originally Posted by mabedzaqueen

Okay Miranda, i rarely venture out of the "freebies" section but your post sparked my interest in such a way that i simply needed to comment...

Your 1st question: i believe my attraction (to T-girls) is about 95% sexual; i mean a true relationship would be nice but i'm not enough of a gentleman for it... As an "admirer" though, i tend to have long-term "crushes" with just a few of 'em (can't explain that, but it's "fantasy" territory). Thoughts about TG myself ? I've read posts by male members who seem in very good terms with their "feminine side" - well, it looks like mine has chosen to remain silent...

Your 2nd question (the dreadful terms): honestly, over the years i have come to terms (no pun) with the idea of a "3rd gender" for MtoF pre-op TS women and this seems quite accepted in many places around the world, this forum being an exception... and i respect this by not sharing my thoughts on the subject here (i got over-enthusiastic one time last spring but that's it!)

Now, about the (fascinating) epilogue of your post: find it great that you tried to have sex with gay guys, though i'm a bit saddened by your conclusion; (just my opinion here, Miranda) you say they viewed you as a man, quite possible, but maybe they also viewed you as a gift - not a "trophy", rather a dream-come-true??
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Dennis.

So glad that you did respond. I was hoping for people similar to you to do so.

Well feel free to elaborate if you'd like. No judgement here. Just maybe added insight. Also, non-op trans men would be included in that "third gender".

You may be right about the gay guys that I have been with that thought I was a "dream come true". But all but one of them didn't find any kind of female sexually attractive. The exception is the last (self identifying) gay man who said he only has sex with men and non or pre-op transsexual women.

Ty Dennis.

Originally Posted by smc

I presume that your reference is to an exchange that others can find from last April. In my view, that exchange was NOT about the concept of a third gender, which was mentioned in the posts but was not the source of what you confound here as this forum not being accepting of the concept. It is a completely worthy topic of discussion.

I agree... It is worthy off topic discussion.

Ty SMC.