Penis as On/Off Switch

[valentinetabitha]

I have a similar problem, although mine has more to do with specifically having sex. Masterbation has little effect. Still, I think it has something to do with the amount of testosterone that floods your body during masterbation and ejaculation.

I'm curious, when you masterbate, are you looking at "straight" porn? That might have something to do with it as well. If you can masterbate and keep a more feminine mindset (ie: envisioning yourself as the receiver of a dick instead of the other way around) that may also help.