need help

[defiance]

hello all
i am having trouble communicating with shemale women.. i have slept with a few already but getting them to meet up for coffee is priving to be hard..

i respect them highly and like to get to know someone before we either date or hit the sack
i m basically wondering if u guys have noticed that approaching a trans female is tricky, they usually act as if they dont care or arent interested. and the conversations are usually one sided. ie me trying to find topics for them to talk about. i dont have trouble with men or women when i meet stranger and spark up conversations but i m just finding that these ladies are acting hyper spoiled. granted probably there are alot of dudes trying to hit on them left right and center and i can understand that they are a bit turned off.. but i wasnt the one who contacted her thru the dating site she contacted me. some email exchages seemd like a good convo and then it moved to msn and stuff but damn i just need some advice from men women and even ts females.

i dont wanna appraoch them as if all i want is sex.. cause a relationship would be great

thank you for ur words and hopefuly this just turn into a flame war on me

- d