Oh fantasy, transgender, and identity.

[Tranny Sore-Ass Rex]

Unless you've found the road to Utopia, the pressure to fit into real life social constructs will always be there. Honestly, it's an ideal situation and a brilliant idea for the world to collectively co-exist, but sadly unobtainable. There is always going to be a leader of the pack, there will always be those willing to follow, and there will always be those willing to challenge authority. Perhaps if humans were single celled, otherwise you're seeking an impossible answer.