Shemales or Transsexuals

[Be_my_nude]

Originally Posted by Vanillas

I was recently chatting with a cam4 shemale and I wrote that she was "cute," by which I meant that she was feminine or girlie. She then launched into a semi-intelligible tirade saying, in essence, that she was a transexual, not a shemale. I am quite new to this and don't want to offend anyone again. Can someone tell me if the term "cute" is onerous to most shemales. Thank You

I feel that it all depends on how sensitive individuals are to being labelled. We are all guilty of doing this and giving unintended offence to another at some time or other. ( so-called ' racist ' remarks are an example ) As for me, I don't take insult very easily, not even if I'm called a ' Lesbian Bitch ' or whatever. I just think ' Well that's all YOU know ! ' and not give them a chance to find out. Of course we all have a short fuse on a bad day, but there are an waful lot of ignorant people out there who don't know the meaning of the word ' considerate '. Personally I think they are either lazy or pathetic, and why should I let them spoil my day for more than a couple of minutes.

Some of us need to crusade about issues such as this. I don't, but I respect the right of others to feel strongly about matters directly impacting on their own lives.

Bella