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Sydney here mate.
If you ever get a chance to come to Sydney, head to taxi club and arq club in Oxford st. If you are looking for a ladyboy, best chance and place to meet one in person.
Alternatively, most Aussie ts at one time or another are on dating site called adultmatchmaker.com.au. It's where I met my ts gf, plus many other ts that I dated/ had casual flings with. Only downside of adultmatchmaker is that to get anywhere on it, you will need to get a paid membership.

Alternatively, you can try a site called dateinasia. It's free to use and chat, and it had many ts from around the world, including Indonesia Thailand and philipines.
From dateinasia, I have met many ts that I chatted to on there that then come to Australia to visit.
I would strongly recommend dateinasia if you want to meet an overseas ts, chat and become friends from here first.

Baring all that, buy a plane ticket and head to philipnes or thaialnd.