Happily Married

I have been married for the second time since March 2011. My wife knows I am a member here and has actually been on TLB a few times herself. She has no problems with the friendships I?ve made or my activities in support of LGBT rights. Fantasy and role playing can be part of any healthy relationship but if you are thinking about engaging in sexual activity outside of your relationship you would be better off to discuss this with your partner first. How serious is this desire for example? What do you stand to gain? Or lose? Are things currently intolerable with your present partner? Are the both of you into ?fooling around?? Where do you think that will lead? If your relationship is truly open then you should have no problem discussing any of this with her.