cheating and guilt

[humbolt77]

No I'm not saying either is better, just saying that maybe I was trying to feel less guilty but failing miserably. We have all heard of the scenario where a guy gets caught by his wife, but it was with another guy. Wife is devastated, but finds it somehow less painful than if he had cheated with another woman....
Like I said, cheating is cheating whichever way you cut it