Talking with sweet TS and need advice

[Enoch Root]

Originally Posted by iluvyurwifey

Interesting. Not only do the buttin-skis ignore the pleadings of an OP to spare him the morality lesson, but I noticed there wasn't one negative word said about the TS I'm talking to who knows exactly about my marital status. Only negative words about me. If the sites' T&C state that I am not allowed to post messages concerning infidelity, then I will take this post down and not speak of it again. Otherwise, I guess I'll just have to ignore the "holier than thou" crowd.

Thanks for your input. I'll take it into consideration.

Pleadings? To paraphrase the character Britta from "Community": it's so unfair how difficult it is for you to cheat.

Saying I am holier than thou is no argument against what I said. If you have indeed decided to ignore the feelings of your wife (that is to say, if she is unaware of what you are planning to do, to cheat on her rather than attempt to establish an honest and open relationship), if you have decided to throw morality to the wind then the problems lies with you not with me.

If on the other hand your wife is aware of your desire for this other woman then there is no problem. I did give you a basic piece of advise: talk to your wife. People have loosened up a bit about this stuff over the years and monogamy is no longer the monolith it once was (though it may be more accurate to say: the monolith it once pretended to be yet never was). You might even get her to participate in everything a non-monogamous relationship makes possible.