I've got a meet

[jon_Joy_1999]

personally, I would not do this.. I would prefer to meet someone locally, but if I were to do this, I would set some ground rules first. shi says shi's doing this casually. that smells of shi's going to get you there, and then hit you up for money, or want you to buy hir things when you get there, and then leave once shi has what shi wants, or even worse just take it from you when you let your guard down, or have an accomplice who mugs you and then splits the proceeds with hir...
reminds me a bit of how a national (comedic) radio show in the US 'gets funding': "by helping old ladies cross the street, and hitting them up for five bucks at the half way point"

essentially I am advocating hope for the best, but prepare for the worst