TGIRL TOO GOOD - Worried sex with a Tgirl might be too good

[Mel Asher]

Originally Posted by aa2239

Erm... excuse me for asking, but what's so bad about liking t-girls more than g-girls? It almost sounds like you're afraid of becoming gay? Like many people have already said, it's unlikely that having sex with a t-girl will completely turn you off sex with a g-girl. But in the event that it does, so what?! At least you're doing what you enjoy with who you want to, you're with the person/people you find most attractive.

Maybe I'm not seeing the issue from your point of view... in life, I try to do what's best for me, not what everyone else says or thinks I should do... but I know that not everyone is the same.

There is little or no connection in terms of psychological development between being an un-selfdiscovered Gay and being attracted to tGirls. Men are intensely-visual creatures, most particularly in matters of sexual stimulus, and the popularity of porn sites bears this out massively.

While there is some logic in assuming that enjoying the sight of a penis or balls and lusting variously after the owner might indicate some degree of Gayness in the person lusting, the facts really do not bear this out. Just because a Gay seeing another naked Gay's equipment might turn him on, it does not mean that he would be turned on by seeing the same in a tGirl, in fact he would more likely be turned off by her femininity / femaleness.

So, yes, by all means enjoy the turn-on, as a testosterone-loaded male with visual appreciation it is your right, just as you might be turned on by the sight if two Lesbians ' at it '.

A different question is the one about ' real woman ' or not. This is purely a question of individual viewpoint. However it would be very hurtful, if not downright insulting to imply to a Transgender still in the process of strugging to come to terms with her need for recognition and respect that she was less than a worthwhile person sexually. Technically differences there might be, but emotionally there should be no distinction. If there is, then it is in the mind of the peson who makes such hurtful and disrespectful criticisms, and he or she should respectfully withhold the opinion.

Hank has already said do not worry about your sexual preferences changing to such a degree that you are unable to enjoy what you had before. Just be thankful that you still have a healthy appetite both for sex and for life !