Does my obsession come from control?

[FMB]

When I'm with a woman I love to be the one in control. What makes the sex so amazing is when I'm with someone I really like and I know I can blow their mind.

I haven't been with a TS, I don't know even if I ever will but in my fantasy I'm always the sub and I think that might be why I feel the attraction in the first place.

Does anyone else know where I'm coming from?

Oh and does anyone have any videos that focus on ts telling you what to do?

Thanks.

[merelypink]

yes most often when men are always in control(ceo's etc...) they secretly want to be dominated.... Its almost relaxing to them... So no you are perfectly normal..

[FMB]

Originally Posted by merelypink

yes most often when men are always in control(ceo's etc...) they secretly want to be dominated.... Its almost relaxing to them... So no you are perfectly normal..

Thanks for the reply. I'm not worried, more intrigued if you will.

Don't get me wrong if I found the right ts then I would as always be as kind as ever but with them I think I could have the best of both worlds.

[smc]

Originally Posted by merelypink

yes most often when men are always in control(ceo's etc...) they secretly want to be dominated.... Its almost relaxing to them... So no you are perfectly normal..

And you base this conclusion -- "most often" -- on WHAT?

[franalexes]

Your desire to be in control does not come from strength, but from weakness.

[smc]

Originally Posted by franalexes

Your desire to be in control does not come from strength, but from weakness.

Truer words were never spoken (er, written).

[FMB]

Originally Posted by smc

Truer words were never spoken (er, written).

Shockingly I complete disagree. My desire to be in control is based around the idea that if I am in control then women enjoy the experience more. If I found a woman who got more enjoyment from me not being in control then within reason I'd gladly hand over the reigns as it were but in my experience there are not many women like that.

The idea of being in control being a weakness is completely illogical to me no matter how profound one might make it sound.