fake friends

[transjen]

I've been told you don't loose when you loose fake friends
This may be true but it still hurts
Jerseygirl Jen

[shadows]

I am not sure if you mean fake as friends that you don't know offline(online friends) or fake as in people who only pretended to be your friend and then stabbed you in the back.

Either way, I disagree with whoever said it doesn't hurt. It does. I have felt both the loss of an online friend(she was from Russia and I think something bad happened to her) and I have also been betrayed by someone who I thought was my friend and turned out not to be anything of the sort. I know how bad it can hurt, but it can help talking to other friends(or just writing it out for yourself in a journal or something like that).

My PM Box is open if you ever need to talk.

[smc]

Jen, loss hurts, plain and simple, and because I think of you as one of my online friends it hurts me to know you're feeling a loss. You deserve nothing but joy, with no pain. My PM box is open, too, even if you just want to get a warm word of support back for a tiny boost.

I believe you never truly know anybody , if you look upon it this way you will never be disappointed , we can only hope people stay as they are , but most things change

[Talvenada]

Originally Posted by transjen

I've been told you don't loose when you loose fake friends
This may be true but it still hurts
Jerseygirl Jen

JEN:

When reality breaks the perception of someone, like when someone falls out of love, that's how fragile friendships and relationships are. They are a reality based in perception. That's why the pain is always real and not perceived. The perception of you changed, and with it the reality of your friendship. It isn't right but it is reality none the less.

Hopefully this reality will speed your healing, if not the scar it left.



TAL

[transjen]

Thanks everyone,
At this time i don't want to really talk about it in great detail but this was a friend that was very dear to me and this one really hurts
Jerseygirl Jen

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by transjen

Thanks everyone,
At this time i don't want to really talk about it in great detail but this was a friend that was very dear to me and this one really hurts
Jerseygirl Jen

What happened?

[transjen]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

What happened?

Basicly he said our whole friendship was based on a lie
Jerseygirl Jen

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by transjen

Basicly he said our whole friendship was based on a lie
Jerseygirl Jen

Did it have anything to do with you being trans?

[tslust]

Originally Posted by transjen

Basicly he said our whole friendship was based on a lie
Jerseygirl Jen

that sucks

[Midori Naosaki]

Originally Posted by transjen

I've been told you don't loose when you loose fake friends
This may be true but it still hurts
Jerseygirl Jen

Well after a while you realize that you can get the "feeling" that they are fake. So you distance yourself.

I hope that helps.


Midori-chan