How do you release your sexual desire?

[WudLuv2try]

How do you release your sexual desire?

Do you have sex with your wife?

Or your girlfriend? Boyfriend?

Do you masturbate?

Do you visit the 'massage' parlor and get some oil massage?

What ways are there, to release my sexual desire? Provided that I actually HAVE sexual desire... -__- ,,

Do you make fuck buddies? Have affairs? Prostitutes?

I'm just curious because since I'm married, my options are pretty much down to zero. Even masturbating causes concerns.

It's been so long since I had actual desire to fuck.

I mean, I used to want to have sex every hour when I was young...

When I was riding a bus... subway... at schools... at theaters...

But these days it's hard to imagine getting it up.

There is no 'inspiration'.

Life must suck.

That's when I smoke a joint...

And somehow, I can imagine a wonderful sex, the kind that can only be found in this site, Transladyboy Forum...

I mean where else can I 'discharge' so much sex other than this site?

I'm so glad this site exists, and I feel extremely thankful to the people who made this and maintain this website.

Thanks, guys... or girls... or wherever you are in between...

[foreskinlvr]

I have a long term gf and I masturbate almost everyday and have sex around 3 times a week. I would have sex more, but her libito isn't too high, but its increased as of late which is nice. I've never cheated in any way and don't ever plan to, but I do enjoy looking at porn quite a bit which can fulfill some of those darker fantasies.

Sounds like you need to figure some stuff out. Is sex with your wife still fun? Are you turned on in the moment? Maybe you guys should go to a sex therapist or try some new things.

[jodarling]

Partners been few and far between at the moment so I mainly masturbate over this site.

[kilgoretrout]

Lots of self gratification looking at pictures of shemale oral.

I would love to have another shemale encounter, but I do not like using pros and do not know how else to meat one.

[paulmal32]

Sounds you are depressed and have low libido. How old are you? Have you ever had your testosterone levels checked? I was sort of the same way and I started using T and everything is so much better. My BP and resting pulse rate are down my libido is at an all time high. Life is much better

[WudLuv2try]

Thanks for all replies.

Hm... sex with wife huh... Sometimes it's OK, but most of the times, I have sex with her just to prove to her that I still find her sexually attractive.

I don't 'enjoy' it very much, but I like the calm and peacefulness feeling I get after I do it with her. She's more relaxed and much less edgy after sex.

Honestly, I think my wife is pretty bad at sex. She doesn't give me blow jobs, she doesn't let me eat her pussy, nothing. We just do it like a monk and a nun.

HOWEVER,

It's not like I'm very sexually active either. I can go weeks... months without sex... with another person. I can just live with masturbating to various porns and I can keep myself horny by jacking off at oddest of places.

But lately, my wife said something that made me feel uncomfortable about masturbating.

She said (in a sarcastic and pissed off tone),

"You have sexual urge, but you don't think of me... you'd rather jack off than have sex with your wife."

So after that, jacking off lost its thing... Just thinking about jacking off makes me feel uncomfortable. And after that, I lost all my sexual desire.

Suddenly I feel like I'm in a therapist session........

But really... I need to vent....