Am I really the only one who ever had a meaningful relationship with a trans*woman?

[hankhavelock]

Am I really the only one who ever had a meaningful relationship with a trans*woman here at this grand forum?

There MUST be others here... but I've never read a single posting from a guy with a similar experience. Not that I recall.

And what about you, ladies? Did you ever settle down with a good man for a long term relationship? I know Mizzy B is coming close, but again, there must be others!

This is beginning to be a futile effort... what's the MATTER with all of you? I get cold chills when thinking that this is all a fantasy for you and that none of you will ever have the guts to go for what you want. That we will continue this philosophical talk for years without any meaningful result.

I know that it may be easier for me because I'm in the midst of trans*women - however, my whereabouts is not an excuse for the whole world to do NOTHING! There are SO MANY gorgeous and intelligent trans*woman around me who'd LOVE to get a nice, sincere, faithful husband. That's dream numero uno.

No, most Asians are not rich, but no, she will not take you solely for your money either. She will take you if you are a kind man with a good heart and she will love you stronger than most Westerns girls.

So, should I start a dating-service here?

I get a bit tired of repeating the same things - it seems that NO guys here get any further. I haven't read of ONE single success-story here. Are you all "mother's wankers" who just dream but never ACT? If so you'll never be a match for any trans*woman. She'll demand more - not least honesty and guts.

And while you consider your answers I'll take a quick weekend trip to Bali to meet a gorgeous lady... and NO... it's not what you think. It's not a sex-thing. Both she and I have decided that we need an LTR, so we check each other out to find out if we match. If we match it's Christmas Eve, if we don't then so be it, but at least we try.

Y'all should learn from that. To gain something you have to do a bit. So wake up, guys! If you want a transsexual girlfriend you have to be at your best and prove to her that you mean business. And unless you're satisfied by being a wanker then go do it! I did! So can you...

Peace!

H

[kilgoretrout]

Hank
The only ones I have run into were either pros or playing a wide field. I have never met a TS that was looking for a relationship. Too bad. I am not keen on having to go the pro route. And unbridled promiscuity in this day and age has its risks.

[tslust]

Hank, I'd love to have a relationship with a good man. I've had a few relationships, but after that last bastard, I've almost given up on having a meaningful relationship. So, for now, I stick to having some NSA fun. I know that its not real love but it beats a fake relationship any day.

[rockabilly]

NSA fun? National Security Agency? ... I'm confused ... what about me?

[tslust]

Originally Posted by rockabilly

NSA fun? National Security Agency? ... I'm confused ... what about me?

No Strings Attached
I was referring to my last boyfriend. At first, he seemed soo sweet and kind. He convinced me to move in with him. It was soo great at first. Then he became obessive, controlling, and abusive(mostly verbal). I finally had all I could take. I left him, he started following me. I even went to the cops, but they woldn't do anything. Then one day, he found me. He thought he could take me. I showed him my suprise, and politely informed him that if I ever saw him again, no one else would.

I wasn't talking about you, baby. You're such a sweet, caring, and not to mention sexy guy.

[rockabilly]

Aww now i'm blushing