Truth

[fatbloke]

MMMMM,not sure about this telling the truth business,just told my girlfriend about my liking for shemales,has'nt gone down very well

[Curioustsliker]

If she can't accept you for what you like, then I don't think she's the girl for you to be honest,

[no1000]

Curioustsliker is right in essence but just know that there will never be a PERFECT girl and even if you do find your PERFECT girl, there are things that should/will never be said between the two of you. Be careful with that stuff. The majority of people still won't accept us as normal human beings.

[smc]

Originally Posted by no1000

Curioustsliker is right in essence but just know that there will never be a PERFECT girl and even if you do find your PERFECT girl, there are things that should/will never be said between the two of you. Be careful with that stuff. The majority of people still won't accept us as normal human beings.

Given how the "majority of people" seems to define "normal," who the hell would want to be accepted as such? Not me!

[Curioustsliker]

Originally Posted by no1000

Curioustsliker is right in essence but just know that there will never be a PERFECT girl and even if you do find your PERFECT girl, there are things that should/will never be said between the two of you. Be careful with that stuff. The majority of people still won't accept us as normal human beings.

I agree with you that there is no perfect girl, but the one that is right for you will accept what you do or like, otherwise why bother with her? There is someone for everyone and that someone won't mind that you like trans women or any other "secret" you have that might put some people off.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by fatbloke

MMMMM,not sure about this telling the truth business,just told my girlfriend about my liking for shemales,has'nt gone down very well

What were you expecting her to say?
She is probably thinking "Oh, you like cock, gggrreat...."

Reassure her. Explain the difference between fantasy and reality and that yes you like the idea of a lot of things
But you want to be with her rather than a shemale*
and if that was not the case, you would be dating a shemale* rather than her.


*For thread-flow. I hate this term.
It might be better if you refer to us as transsexual women instead,
as she might find this less of a threat:
ie. Woman a little different, rather than men with tits.

[fatbloke]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

What were you expecting her to say?
She is probably thinking [B]"Oh, you like cock, gggrreat...."[/
Reassure her. Explain the difference between fantasy and reality and that yes you like the idea of a lot of things
But you want to be with her rather than a shemale*
and if that was not the case, you would be dating a shemale* rather than her.


*For thread-flow. I hate this term.
It might be better if you refer to us as transsexual women instead,
as she might find this less of a threat:
ie. Woman a little different, rather than men with tits.

Thats exactly what i did do,it seems ok but time will tell

[merelypink]

I maybe would have keep it secret... Not sure she would be thrilled if you told her you were into a certain gg porn star either... She wants ton know that you are in to "her"

[fatbloke]

Originally Posted by merelypink

I maybe would have keep it secret... Not sure she would be thrilled if you told her you were into a certain gg porn star either... She wants ton know that you are in to "her"

Yeah,in hindsight,i wanted to be honest,sometimes you should keep your trap shut.
Oh well,back to jerking off i guess lol

[MooLuver]

My lady is asian and knows that I like ladyboys...not a big problem for us
but she is not real happy that Im in-luv with Moo. I think she wants me not to focus on one ladyboy...spread the love and she could deal with it better !

My girl is my # 1 love...but Moo is a close 2nd...lol

[andrei_balon]

Originally Posted by fatbloke

MMMMM,not sure about this telling the truth business,just told my girlfriend about my liking for shemales,has'nt gone down very well

what did you expect?