are there TS girls that actually really like going top?

i know theres a LOT of porno suggesting this, but i'd just like to hear some opinions, i mean i would have thought they would rather go sub usually.


when i say this i mean full tops, as in preferring it to sub, not just going top on occasion

[smc]

Originally Posted by bluemoon121

i know theres a LOT of porno suggesting this, but i'd just like to hear some opinions, i mean i would have thought they would rather go sub usually.


when i say this i mean full tops, as in preferring it to sub, not just going top on occasion

What possible reason would you have to doubt that people have all sorts of preferences when it comes to sex?

If there are men that prefer to bottom, why not transwomen that prefer to top?

[Bionca]

As with many things, this can be complicated. For me, part of my trans-related body issues involves how I use my body sexually. I'm not only not fond of topping, I literally can't even if I'm turned on with an erection. The act itself is so disturbing to me that I lose all interest and have a very strong emotional reaction.

That said, some gals absolutely love having all of their bodies used in many different ways sexually. Some gals prefer to top, some are happy being switch. Some are willing to do what their partner wants because they enjoy giving pleasure.

Where it becomes complicated for Trans women, is in seeking assistance with trans-related care. There are many people who will withhold treatment if they suspect a trans woman enjoys her penis sexually. This was pretty standard through the 90's.

[JodieTs]

Ts topping in films & escorting:
viagra & $$$
Most pre op ts who are on hormones for any significant time
[unless they cycle the hormones]
usually have reduced or no erections.
Viagra goes a long way to sorting out the physical.

Most ts are at best indifferent to their penis at worst loath them,
but coin acts as a big motivator.

I dont top men & on the rare occasions I penetrate a woman,
day-one female, or ts history female...
it really messes with my head.
Also, it usually really is quite painful.
I still get very hard despite chemical castration [zoladex implants]
& highish long term estrogen doses
but the outer skin has shrunk more than the internal bits
so penetrating anything with my penis, basically just hurts.
Not nice & usually not erotic for me.

Same story for a lot of my ts friends.

[desirouspussy]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Where it becomes complicated for Trans women, is in seeking assistance with trans-related care. There are many people who will withhold treatment if they suspect a trans woman enjoys her penis sexually. This was pretty standard through the 90's.

That sounds very wrong to me. Why should a transsexual woman not enjoy her penis sexually and why shouldn't she be allowed to pleasure others with it?

Naturally, I would prefer a girl to top me!

Diana

Originally Posted by GGadmirer

That sounds very wrong to me. Why should a transsexual woman not enjoy her penis sexually and why shouldn't she be allowed to pleasure others with it?

Naturally, I would prefer a girl to top me!

Diana

This might be simplifying the issue - I'm sure I'll be put straight if I'm getting this wrong but I think the problem was that if you were a TS seeking hormone treatment and eventually SRS, you had to convince doctors that you really 'knew' that you were female (that's not putting it very well but I hope you can see what I mean). So if they suspected that you didn't regard your penis with horror and, even worse, might enjoy using it now and again they considered that you were merely some kind of fetishist and would refuse treatment. I say was but this may well still be the case...

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Natalie_J

This might be simplifying the issue - I'm sure I'll be put straight if I'm getting this wrong but I think the problem was that if you were a TS seeking hormone treatment and eventually SRS, you had to convince doctors that you really 'knew' that you were female (that's not putting it very well but I hope you can see what I mean). So if they suspected that you didn't regard your penis with horror and, even worse, might enjoy using it now and again they considered that you were merely some kind of fetishist and would refuse treatment. I say was but this may well still be the case...

That was very much the case at NHS National Health Service GIC's Gender Identity Clinics.
They are totally different now.
When I first went I was self medding, private counseling, & intending to pay for my surgeries. Not get them paid for by the NHS.
I also said I was having an orchiectomy not a vag
coz
1. It pees just fine
2. tucks up out the way the rest of the time so you would never know
3. gives great orgasms

Deep breath from the psych
then he said it was cool and that GIC's position had radically changed
in that now they see ts persons asa a wide spectrum rather than a narrow confined definition.

These days GIC's look to help the client find what is best for them
and enjoying orgasms from your willy is not a no go area
but they will push you on how you will handle post op
[be that an orchi or full SRS]
if the end result is a loss of sexual function.

It's where a person stands on body self identity, that is the big issue for GIC's
and should also be for the ts as well.