worried

[epj290]

hello,
i do not know if this is the place to write this but here goes. I sort of had anal sex and now im worried i say sort of because i went in almost halfway and then took it out no thrusting no blood. The person i did it with says that they are negative and tested a month earlier. But im still worried, is ok to be worried or am i just paranoid?

[Cyborg]

Was it a man? If so, test yourself. Btw, you could formulate your question better.

[epj290]

well my question is just if its ok to be worried or am i just paranoid.

why does it matter if its a man or not.

i have to wait till march to get the conclusive answer. the whole three month thing
its my first time and i didnt even actually had sex since it was a in and out thing within less than a minute.

[Cyborg]

Originally Posted by epj290

well my question is just if its ok to be worried or am i just paranoid.

why does it matter if its a man or not.

i have to wait till march to get the conclusive answer. the whole three month thing
its my first time and i didnt even actually had sex since it was a in and out thing within less than a minute.

It doesn´t matter, I´m just asking. I hope you know the person well and worrying won´t solve your issues. Live your life till march and play safe. But, is it ok to be worried? Sure, not only on sexual issues.

[epj290]

well i mean im only 20 i would be completly devastated if i was positive..i mean it was sort of my first time and even then i didnt even get to acutally have sex...the person told me that they are clean and always practices safe sex.

[Cyborg]

Originally Posted by epj290

well i mean im only 20 i would be completly devastated if i was positive..i mean it was sort of my first time and even then i didnt even get to acutally have sex...the person told me that they are clean and always practices safe sex.

Ok then, don´t shatter youd head, now. I can understand your worries and you´re not the first and not the last one with following thoughts. Since your sexual partner told you he/she´s playing safe, he/she shouldn´t be such an asshole to lie about such important things.