Why???

[breen]

right so here goes.. iv been on here loads recently.. im a married man.. but im really attracted to TS girls...now i dont watch gay sex between two men. it turns me off... but when i watch a TS girl i get so hard and have to wank strating away.. so im not gay but i love TS girls... and dream of making love to a gorgeous TS lady.. as im a virgin in that department... ooooooh im so confused. Gay, Straight, Bi ... >??????? help

[Magnetical]

Of course the lines are always blurred with the technicalities, but as a general consensus, here's the jist of it: You're not gay. If you were gay you would like men, as in males, as in masculine in appearance. TS girls are just that; girls. They look like women, dress like women, talk like women etc etc etc, which is half the reason you like them in the first place. Shemales do not walk around with hairy legs and 5 o'clock shadows. Straight men like shemales because they're girls with the same toy to play with. A strictly gay man being attracted to shemales would logically not make sense. I don't see how any man could possibly be gay if he liked shemales. That would completely defeat the purpose of being gay.

[aa2239]

Originally Posted by Magnetical

Of course the lines are always blurred with the technicalities, but as a general consensus, here's the jist of it: You're not gay. If you were gay you would like men, as in males, as in masculine in appearance. TS girls are just that; girls. They look like women, dress like women, talk like women etc etc etc, which is half the reason you like them in the first place. Shemales do not walk around with hairy legs and 5 o'clock shadows. Straight men like shemales because they're girls with the same toy to play with. A strictly gay man being attracted to shemales would logically not make sense. I don't see how any man could possibly be gay if he liked shemales. That would completely defeat the purpose of being gay.

A great answer in a nutshell, very well put Magnetical.... that's an A* grade first post! You've set a high bar for yourself now lol

[transjen]

You just want something differnt, We look and act like girls be we have something extra hence to you it's a new thrill Jennifer

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by breen

right so here goes.. iv been on here loads recently.. im a married man.. but im really attracted to TS girls...now i dont watch gay sex between two men. it turns me off... but when i watch a TS girl i get so hard and have to wank strating away.. so im not gay but i love TS girls... and dream of making love to a gorgeous TS lady.. as im a virgin in that department... ooooooh im so confused. Gay, Straight, Bi ... >??????? help

No need for any confusion, mano. You're simply a completely normal str8 guy with a healthy attraction to trans*women. An attraction to trans*women is NOT a gay-thing because trans*women are exactly that... WOMEN!

[breen]

thanks for the help... i always thought i was straight and now i know i am ...i have PM a few girls on here ... most ignore me lol... but a few have replied and have been really lovely ... hope to build a friendship with you all

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by breen

thanks for the help... i always thought i was straight and now i know i am ...i have PM a few girls on here ... most ignore me lol... but a few have replied and have been really lovely ... hope to build a friendship with you all

Breen, my man, you also say that you are married. I don't think that many women, who wants something beyond sex, are necessarily too comfortable with that. That goes for cis* as well as trans*women.

It's completely cool that you say it out, but what is it you want from a trans*woman? Is it merely a sexual escapade, or are you willing to leave your wife and get involved seriously with another woman? A trans*woman?

If this is merely curiousity, which is completely ok, then make sure that you come out in the open with it once you have your first date with a trans*woman.

Trans*women may be tough (because they have to be), but they are also the most fragile beings exactly because of their honesty. So don't play around with them. If you want a trans*woman then go for her, but decide from the start what you want her for and, please, tell her...

Best wishes

H

[Darha]

Shemales, transvestites and crossdressers are girls, everybody says the same thing, they feel the same that a woman and even more, make her a real woman. Don't stress, if you're gay you love male faces

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

Breen, my man, you also say that you are married. I don't think that many women, who wants something beyond sex, are necessarily too comfortable with that. That goes for cis* as well as trans*women.

It's completely cool that you say it out, but what is it you want from a trans*woman? Is it merely a sexual escapade, or are you willing to leave your wife and get involved seriously with another woman? A trans*woman?

If this is merely curiousity, which is completely ok, then make sure that you come out in the open with it once you have your first date with a trans*woman.

Trans*women may be tough (because they have to be), but they are also the most fragile beings exactly because of their honesty. So don't play around with them. If you want a trans*woman then go for her, but decide from the start what you want her for and, please, tell her...

Best wishes

H

what you said Hank

[breen]

i know what your saying Hank thats why im being honest and saying i am married... bet alot of guys on here are married and not saying... im reall y attracted to TS women but iv never had the pleasure of meeting one... thats the big problem.. i cant make any decisions about anything until i meet and talk to a TS girl to see how i feel about it. of course id love to try the sex bit lol but i think getting to know my feeling about it is the main thing i have to understand first.. do i make sense???

Originally Posted by breen

right so here goes.. iv been on here loads recently.. im a married man.. but im really attracted to TS girls...now i dont watch gay sex between two men. it turns me off... but when i watch a TS girl i get so hard and have to wank strating away.. so im not gay but i love TS girls... and dream of making love to a gorgeous TS lady.. as im a virgin in that department... ooooooh im so confused. Gay, Straight, Bi ... >??????? help

i feel the same ^^

don't ask..enjoy

[fockewul]

I love TS girls and women. I had sex with both and enjoyed it, but can't picture myself with a man, not in a million years. I never doubted I was hetero, but I guess that for some people getting confused in the beggining is quite normal. Don't stress about it.

[racquel]

The label "gay" only really applies to a 100% male being with a 100% male.

The label "straight" only really applies to a 100% male being with a 100% female.

If you're going to be attracted to TS women who want to keep their cocks, most people would call her less than 100% female. So it's not exactly straight sex. But it's certainly not gay sex. Gay men want to be with men, not shemales.

I have a lot of gay friends, and only a few of them have ever tried to fuck me -- and that's usually when they were drunk. Tranny chasers are usually straight acting.