Another story

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Another ?my story?

Since there are not (yet) so many topics about successful meetings or relationships on this forum ? compared to the sexual content -, I decided to give it a try to write down my story.

While I write this, I am a 23 year old guy, still studying at the university. I think I have a good life: I am healthy, I consider myself intelligent and good looking, I make friends relatively easy, I can do (most of) the things I want, and I have some very good friends and a good family. Next to this I have a very, very sweet and beautiful girlfriend at the other side of the world, in beautiful Thailand. Except for the fact I miss her very much, which is not easy sometimes, I am actually one of the luckiest guys around to be with her. We just have to wait for the right time to meet again. The good news is that she will move to the United Kingdom for her work within a couple of months, not far from my country.

It all started in February, last year. By that time I did not really had something to complain about, but I knew I missed something in my life. At moments I felt empty. For some reason I just could not get the pure satisfaction with dating or hanging out with the girls in my environment. I knew I could feel attracted to some (and I also fell in love before), but most of the times only at a very shallow level. Maybe it was just not exactly ?it? for me, maybe I needed something else. I just did not know yet what that was, back then.

Like most of the people here I started looking on the internet. Only a short time before that time I found out about the existence of transsexual (dating) websites. It immediately got my curiosity. I experienced some dating with guys before, when I was a little younger, but without success. I was just more attracted to girls. Nevertheless, the sexual aspects of both attracted me. So maybe a mix of both was just perfect for me. Not only at the physical level, also at the mentally level.

That is how I got in touch with my girlfriend. Actually we did not chat that much in the beginning and we even lost contact after some time. But the conversations we had were nice, interesting and very friendly. I knew I would meet her in real if I got the chance.

That chance came. Together with two friends I booked my first trip to South East Asia for the summer holiday. When we arrived in Kuala Lumpur I was still thinking about her. Lucky me, when I looked for her she was there again, she was ?online?. She knew I would be in SE Asia that month, so it was just a matter of time before we could meet.

I remember it so well, the day I first met her. It is difficult to find the words to describe this part, but it was wonderful. In the beginning I was extremely nervous and excited, in the end tremendously happy. Some drinks and dinner led to a night out in the club and ultimately? her home. The rest I will leave to your own imagination. After that night I decided to stay a few days longer and catch up a little later again with my friends. Those days were so special. No thoughts about the past and no worries about the future, only the delight of the present. I felt that maybe this was what I was looking for? soon, of course, I had to think about the future again....


ONE YEAR LATER

The more time went by, the more I knew I wanted to meet her again. We managed to keep in touch and chatted for more than 10 months after we first met. Almost every week more than once. We both discovered that our ?contact? was special.

This summer I went back to her again. Not once, but two times (lucky us!). Many things happened in the year that went by and many things we had to get through in both our own lives. I 'friendship' developed to a relationship, so we're now a couple. Of course we don?t know what the future will bring, but we are doing very well and we are very optimistic. Most important is that we want eachother to be happy, so time will tell where that will lead to. Like I said, she will move to the United Kingdom soon, which gives us the chance to meet much more often. I can go there or she can go there and I hope to show her the most beautiful places in Europe one day. Anyhow, we have still a long way to go?




Although there is of course much more to tell, I just wrote about this part of my experience because I wanted to share it and I think it can be some sort of example of that at one moment you don't know what you are looking for, but only a few months later you might discover what it is. In my opinion you should not let you stop by what other people might think of you, because before you know it is too late.

My friends and family know I have her as my girlfriend and they are very happy for me. Some also saw our photos. I expect they will have the chance to meet her in the near future. They don?t know yet that she is born a t-girl, but when the time is right I will proudly reveal this. I think they will love her too.