What stops/stopped you from getting a TS partner?

[british_boy]

Just flicking through some of the threads in General Discussion, I noticed that a lot of guys here, even the younger ones, have genetic wives and girlfriends.

You clearly love the T side of life (why else would you be here?), so I'm curious as to why you 'settled' for less than your heart's desire. Was it family pressure, social pressure, religion?

Maybe you just see TS porn as a bit of a release?

Do you ever feel like you took the easy, socially acceptable route and now regret it?

I have a lot of respect for guys like Hank here, who know what they like and don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks. I am trying to be like Hank, but I admit, it's hard to shut out the rest of the world and its prejudices sometimes.

I'm not judging anyone here, I'm just really interested to know how you all feel about this.