TOUGH decision. Of course, as others will say, it really depends on your relationship and the type of person she is. In my situation, I never could dream of doing such a thing, until it was slapped in my face after my wife caught me with some evidence of a meeting with a Tgurl (some text messages).
End result? We are still together, she hopes that my "fetish" has been put behind us, or at least relegated to only thoughts and no action, and we both sense the "big elephant in the room" that's always there because we have yet to address the 'why' of my interests.
I hope it comes some day, when we can have an open and honest discussion about it, but it has not happened yet.
So, please be careful and hope that, if you want to stay with your wife, that she is open and kind and forgiving should you decide to say something.
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