[Jenae LaTorque]

Actually I really truly believe that love is over rated.

This thing called love: what is it? I have seen so many people who believe they are in love and all it is really is, is just their hormones acting up.

When it comes to long term relationships I believe it is much more important that you really like the person for who they actually are. Being in love tends to blind us to the significant other's faults. When love's blinders fall off we may be left with someone we really can't stand much. Some people get lucky and when the blinders fall off, the love remains, and they go on to form a long term relationship.

Is it a fool's quest? Well that depends on you and your expectations? If they are foolish, yes. then it may well be a very long and empty quest. Then again, sometimes two fools get together, and get lucky when they find they really do like and respect each other. First thing to do is to really get it set in your mind what you are looking for. Then you have a much better chance of recognizing it when you find it. Get to know the other person

A common pitfall for questing lovers is that sometimes the simplest things can make us fall in love. **For example; I just love Charlize Theron and it all started with just the way she smiles.**

Looking for love in all the wrong places? I have been amazed at some of the relationships I've seen. Do not assume that anyone is out of bounds when it comes to a love match. Just because that gurl is drop dead gorgeous dosen't mean that she is looking for someone to equal her beauty in the looks department; she may find honesty and loyalty to be much more important virtues. And never, I mean never, take rejection personally. After all, if she can't see the gold in you, then there she wasn't ready or right for you to start with. Speaking of your gold; let it shine. Don't play games and pretend to be someone you are not; you can't playact forever.

Is it a waste of time to look for love? Might as well ask if is a waste of time to go on breathing when you know you will die someday. It is a person's goals and aspirations that define them. Show me a person without any goals and I'll show you someone going nowhere.

So..... go get em tiger!