[hankhavelock]

Am I really the only one who ever had a meaningful relationship with a trans*woman here at this grand forum?

There MUST be others here... but I've never read a single posting from a guy with a similar experience. Not that I recall.

And what about you, ladies? Did you ever settle down with a good man for a long term relationship? I know Mizzy B is coming close, but again, there must be others!

This is beginning to be a futile effort... what's the MATTER with all of you? I get cold chills when thinking that this is all a fantasy for you and that none of you will ever have the guts to go for what you want. That we will continue this philosophical talk for years without any meaningful result.

I know that it may be easier for me because I'm in the midst of trans*women - however, my whereabouts is not an excuse for the whole world to do NOTHING! There are SO MANY gorgeous and intelligent trans*woman around me who'd LOVE to get a nice, sincere, faithful husband. That's dream numero uno.

No, most Asians are not rich, but no, she will not take you solely for your money either. She will take you if you are a kind man with a good heart and she will love you stronger than most Westerns girls.

So, should I start a dating-service here?

I get a bit tired of repeating the same things - it seems that NO guys here get any further. I haven't read of ONE single success-story here. Are you all "mother's wankers" who just dream but never ACT? If so you'll never be a match for any trans*woman. She'll demand more - not least honesty and guts.

And while you consider your answers I'll take a quick weekend trip to Bali to meet a gorgeous lady... and NO... it's not what you think. It's not a sex-thing. Both she and I have decided that we need an LTR, so we check each other out to find out if we match. If we match it's Christmas Eve, if we don't then so be it, but at least we try.

Y'all should learn from that. To gain something you have to do a bit. So wake up, guys! If you want a transsexual girlfriend you have to be at your best and prove to her that you mean business. And unless you're satisfied by being a wanker then go do it! I did! So can you...

Peace!

H