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Originally Posted by Bionca
www.tsroadmap.com is a good place to start to sort out what you will want to do. They try to make the resources as international as they can. Unfortunately, in some places there are simply no good options for TGs.
One thing I would caution against is relying too much on online tests. The questions can be worded in such a way as to get specific results - so even if you are 100% honest answering them, your answer may still be influenced by how the question was worded.
Ultimately, the only person who will be able to sort this out is you. With the aid of a therapist, this can be much easier. Still a good therapist will only aid you in figuring out what's going on.
There is also no single way that Trans* women come to identify as trans*. For example, before I transitioned, I have very little desire to dress in women's clothes. I never had a feeling of "releaf" when I did. Some TGs will say something completely different. The only thing that I think unites Trans* women and spearates us from cross-dressers, Drag Queens, TVs (all of which are perfectly fine things to be) is a sense early on that *something* was all wrong as we were growing up. That "something" has no word to define it, but every trans* woman I know understands what I'm talking about.
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i had never had the feeling that something was wrong with my gender....in my early days.... the feeling of being feminine came and went.......but can it be possible that it was because of lack of awareness that something like that is possible....but i used to be sad that i was not developing tits like the way my sisters had.....i even cried and was scared when i saw hairs coming out of my body.... it felt like some sort of disease.....the feeling of being feminine is now coming more often to me..... i have become different in many ways in the past few years...i dont want to mix with people....there is something utterly wrong.... the feeling to be female was never as gr8 to me as it is now.....the feeling is strengthening day by day. can anybody give me an idea about the total costs and duration for the complete transformation....
i am 24 ..... will it be possible for me to make the transformation. what is the maximum age after which it is not possible??? any help with these questions???
about tsroadmap.com.... i found the cogiati test there only and am still browsing there.... it is very inormative....
hope to find solutions soon and be at peace....