[Vanillas]

I've already posted on this thread but the following comes from a different angle.

As several others have posted, EVERYBODY has sexual fantasies. One of Rodney Dangerfield's jokes involved a married couple having sex. Suddenly they stop simultaneously. Then the husband asks his wife, "What's the matter, you can't think of anybody either?".

I don't believe anything can be wrong with something so ubiquitous. I won't presume to tell you how you should view this but, for me, fantasizing about T-Girls (or sheep or circus midgets or whatever), while having sex with your wife, is NOT cheating on her. Also, not every fantasy has to be realized. It has been said that sex is more about what goes on between the ears than between the legs. It seems to me that this is one area where the fantasy may well be preferable to the probable guilt, the fear of your wife finding out, the possibility of contracting an STD, not to mention the disappointment of unmet expectations, inherent in the real thing.