Guilt
I suspect that is a very prevalent expression. Perhaps you should look at your upbringing and environment to understand why you should feel guilt at all.
It seems there are many societies where people are much more relaxed with questions of sexuality - Thailand, Indonesia, Brazil. I suspect that your inferred guilt is due to a more Western upbringing. Like my own. I do have to reflect sometimes how my life would have panned out if I hadn't been brought up with those [negative?] values. At least then we begin to understand the external factors affecting us. Use that if you can.
Ciao e saluut,
Shini
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