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Originally Posted by BlueRaven88
By the way, I HATE going out drinking so this just shows how much fucking effort I'm putting in but getting nothing back. GOD I hate Australia.
See this is why Japan is the superior country. There, the women try everything they can to please the MEN. To get the MAN'S attention. I can't wait until I die cos I'm being reincarnated as a Japanese boy. That way, I can get a cute (kawaii) girlfriend in high school who will make me boxed lunches (bento) every day just to prove how much she loves me. FUCK
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Hey there, Raven--
Sorry to hear about your frustrating night. Keep the chin up and just keep working at things. My only advice (and I've said this before whenever the topic of love and dating has come up and I think others will agree) is that from my own personal experiences, it always seems to happen when you LEAST expect it. When you're trying hard and are really, really, REALLY into it...nada...no luck...not a thing. Never a tug on the ol' fishing line. After which, after putting so much effort into things or putting myself out there and not getting anything in return, I just wanted to lock myself away for feeling like such a loser.
And yet, on the other hand...every time I've then focused my energy on other things (like my work or some project I've just been meaning to throw myself into) THAT'S when I always seem to meet someone. Seriously, at a time when I was sending out brain waves that said "No, no! Go away! Not interested now!" it's as if THAT'S when I exude the strongest sexual pheromones. So, I guess my brain and my body aren't in sync!
Then again, maybe that plays into Hank's point above. When a person focuses on other things and really gets into them... and when they feel those things are going right and they're happy about them... that's when a person probably IS exuding a lot of "Hey, look at me! What a stud I am!" type of pheromones. Plus, that's when a person would subconsciously exude a lot more confidence, which does make them seem SO much more attractive.
Not to pry too much into your life, but what do you do for a living? I only ask because if you dislike Australia so much...or if you feel so constantly frustrated there...have you ever considered just packing a bag and moving? It doesn't have to be forever -- but have you ever thought about relocating for even a year or two, so you could use that time to explore other options in the dating world and meet someone? Such as a TS, which would obviously make you thrilled?