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Originally Posted by Cadian122

And you're a condescending bitch.

Thank you. Bitch is much more kind than the other things you've said about TS girls and Americans so far in this thread.

I don't have an agenda to attack you. My feeling is quite the opposite. It would be wonderful if you could someday make a TS girl happy. But the reality is that you don't appear any different from the average guy who likes shemale porn but would never really treat a TS girl like a woman.

All I'm saying is that you obviously have some insecurities about this, and you really need to deal with those issues before you consider any type of long-term relationship.

Originally Posted by Cadian122

My problem is I lack the tact to tell my mates about this and if I do it wrong I lose my mates who I have known for about 18 years.

I'm not saying it's easy. But think about what you're saying. You want to date a TS girl. You say you want a real relationship. But you would be too embarrassed to tell your friends. Do you really think this is fair? How would you feel if you were dating a girl who didn't want to be seen with you -- a girl who could only see you at specific times because she was afraid of her friends knowing you existed? Being in the closet about your attraction doesn't make you a bad person, but attempting to date a girl who you know you'll be embarrassed of does.

Do you realize TS girls are human? Do you have any idea what it feels like for a guy to want to fuck you and tell you he loves you then be too ashamed to even go see a movie with you unless you go to another town? That is what these insecurities lead to, and it is very hurtful.

I apologize that I can't offer you any sympathy. I already lost all the family and friends I had for the first 18 years of my life.

Originally Posted by Cadian122

Also HIV doesn't come into it, I am confident that I practise safe sex to lower the risk of contracting it,

Then why did you bring it up? Please tell us why you can't just keep your sexual partners to yourself like everyone else when you donate blood. How would dating a TS girl morally obligate you to check the "I fuck men" box when you donate? Is that what you think of pre-op girls? They're just men?

Originally Posted by Cadian122

... because I would like some help based on my experiences and what I do and not have some puffed-up yank shitting on me, because guess what Australia is NOT America, there is about 20,000 km between the countries, and things are different. So just beacuse one thing is done in your country, Australia is different, Sydney and Melbourne are where most of the t-girls are, and they're harder to find in Adelaide.

So you're sticking to your story that all TS girls in Australia only want one-nighters? Then there are probably a lot of people who would like to visit so they can fuck all the shemales without having to pay escort fees.

I'm not saying Australia is like America, but you're obviously incorrect when you say Australian girls only want to fuck and they don't want relationships. Do you honestly expect anybody to believe that?

And again you're attacking my country. What is wrong with you? Most people know that 78% of Americans don't agree with anything our government does. Judging me based on where I live is childish. Maybe you'd have better luck with women if you weren't so anti-social. I never hear Americans saying bad things about Australia, and your country is so backwards that when Americans were landing on the moon in the '60s you had just decided to let Aboriginees vote (and stop stealing their children and locking them up in institutions). Go ahead and stop using The Internet and the GPS satellites that America invented if you hate us so much. I can understand you having a slight inferiority complex when the only contributions you've had to the world are Paul Hogan, Elle MacPherson, Steve Irwin, and the lovely idea of putting cheap wine in a cardboard box, but please just get over yourself. Nobody wants to date someone who always brings up politics at inappropriate times.