> just going to a bar to get a tgirl girlfriend impossible unless all she want,s is a one nighter that won,t get u a tgirlfriend that way some places r very dangerous u don,t no what u will find or get maybe u should do some soul searching and think about it before u get into a bad situation u can,t get out of i think the only way just my opinion would be is to email her and get to no each other it takes time for trust and respect from anyone u can,t buy that just think about it as for your friends if the r true and sincer it shouldn,t really matter if they r not well it,s your call no one else can do that for u just don,t rush it that,s all best of luck