hey bro. I pondered the same question and figured-
1- TG fans don't like men, we seek a feminine form, not masculine. Now if you like dudes too, that's fine, but that doesn't fall into this category. It just means you're in several, yeah? For me it's mostly a fetish- a woman with different equipment.
2- you shouldn't post your image in a public forum if you're not sure yet about "coming out"