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Originally Posted by someguy2
As for Creative's post, it was poorly formatted and a wall of text. If he wanted a response, he should have made it easier to read, and shorter.
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Actually, I'll accept that criticism, no problem. I SHOULD have split such a long post into different parts, since I was addressing different things. So, I apologize. However, since you mentioned that you didn't read all of my post...you quit early on...I'd simply like to repeat what I said at the end (since it was the important part). And I don't think this should be too long or hard to digest...
Flat out, Bionica took offense to your statement: "I don't consider trannies to be real girls. As long as they look like real girls, that's enough for me." You later added: "I don't consider them real girls, because they are not. They can be very good imitations, but that's about as far as it can go."
In the TS community, that's the equivalent of slapping them across the face since they DO consider themselves to be female and WANT that side to be recognized and accepted by the world. So saying she's not a "real girl" or is just an "imitation" and THEN taking it the distance by saying "Hey, so long as you LOOK like a girl, that'll do" -- as if slapping on lipstick and stockings is all that it takes for Bionca to define herself -- demeans her feelings, if not her entire sense of self-being and self-worth. Saying it only matters that she LOOKS the part discredits what Bionca actually FEELS about her own identity.
So, if you're only looking to get off on the porn side of things,
that's cool. If looking at pictures of a sexy, rock hard, ultra passable TS makes you want to jerk off in private,
that's fine. There's more than enough guys who feel the same. Hell, there's obviously a ton of guys who feel that way, which is why TS porn has exploded in recent years.
On the other hand, some friendly advice. Try to remember that much like Jenna Jameson or a porn star isn't indicative of the average woman you'll meet in life, the same is true for TS porn. Is it fun jerking off to superstars like Areeya or Amy? Sure. But the transgendered community is about REAL flesh and blood people with REAL feelings, and they have more than enough problems fighting for even simple acceptance. And that's why blunt terms like "not real women" or "imitation" or "so long as you look good that's ALL that matters" isn't going to make them very happy. Whether you want to believe this or not, they are women inside and consider themselves to be, so they're just looking for a little bit of respect.
Which I don't think should be hard for any of us to give as fellow human beings.