[Bionca]

Originally Posted by new believer

Caution, this reply contains scolding. Please do not read if easily offended.

Ms B has to grow up a little more. But so do better than 97% of the worlds adult population if that's any consolation.

Let's clear the air, for many of the forums readers if I'm right tell THEM so.
Both ladies Fran and Bionca ARE attractive in more ways than looks alone. And I dare say better than average on the 'looks' part. Ms B seems a little 'concerned ' or lacking a degree of self confidence when it comes to not looking,as she put it, 'professionally beautiful' as Bionca Freire(my personnal favorite). The nitty gritty(the stuff Fran works in)of it all, is 'professional' beauty is manufactured for fantasy. Many people believe that 'skin deep' beauty is a day in day out reality. Ever read those tabloids that catch those hollywood glamour gals without makeup? Most look like Pee Wee Herman. Sure many to most of everyone dream of sleeping with a beauty queen(take that as straight or gay),but the truth of the matter is, real beauty is as one does not as one looks like. I admire both these ladies for their contributions which have enlightened and entertained many many people. And I admire their courage to be who they are. Attractive, you bet your sweet bippy they are. If both these ladies were to post nudies of themselves here, I'd be among the first to wank myself off to them before Ms.Freire. (Truth speaking, I've already played with myself dreaming of one of them already. A pm will get the answer to that one.)
Meanwhile, Ms B stop feeling so 'don't measure up to...' You are attractive people have told you that,believe it. I'm glad Fran has a little more confidence, but she also tends to get 'down in the dumps' every now and then. But we all do. And most of us have never been labeled a freak or ridiculed. The main thing is to live and enjoy the one(s) your with. But enjoy being with yourself first and foremost.
I say this from deep admiration,respect and concern. Please don't take it the wrong way.

NB -

It should be a general rule of thumb not to compare people to porn stars... period real folks won't feel like they measure up. To be honest, obviously I think I'm OK looking to post my photos here. For two reasons one, I was asked by a couple guys who missed them the first time arounce, two because it is important to show what actual "non-professionally pretty" trans*women can look like... and I *do* like to get complimented - it's nice to get a compliment and not feel like I eventually have to tell someone something...