A few thoughts:
Never be afraid to explore your sexuality (i would add in a moderated way), but be sure to prioritize what you really want in life. I know it sounds like too much to handle at such young age, but you have to be honest with yourself and decide what should come first: (an emotionally) meaningless sex, or a sexual relationship with someone you trust and are comfortable with exploring your sexuality. Sexuality, in my opinion, needs to be explored with caution. Instant sexual gratification is great, but you might first want to be confident in yourself and your sexuality before you can handle sex with a complete stranger. I might sound too 'romantic', but trust me, its always better to build up sexual confidence with someone you trust, otherwise your insecurities could have a bad effect in your next relationship/sexual encounter.
About STD's, i would recommend that you extreme precautions. Always, and i really mean ALWAYS wear a condom and don't try to do things that you are not experienced in yet.
Good luck.
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