Hank,
Seeing the penis as a symbol of femininity, do you feel uncomfortable with having one?
Interesting, seeing the penis as a symbol of femininity seems to be something you acquired after a long time in contact with transsexual women, where in my case I had this view much before I even knew transsexual women existed.
In case you are interested, there is a thread in which I deal with this matter:
http://forum.transladyboy.com/showthread.php?t=4170