I am not particularly concerned with labels, but I simply don't consider myself or anyone else in the same situation gay. If others do, fine. I am not going to argue. I see a guy ... nothing! Never had any attraction. Masculine features, body hair, etc. just not a turn-on at all. Why do I like a "lady" with a cock? Who knows? Maybe I'm bi-sexual if there are 3 sexes. I just know what I like