it's a well debated topic... perhaps we should not focus on 'labels' (although i do understand our humanistic behavior of needing to identify with something
) so i just tend to consider myself 'a sexual being'.
isn't it the age old adage of 'if you are not hurting anyone, who cares?'
perhaps my view is slightly too simplistic...LOL
oh well...i say 'if it feels good - do it!' boy-girl... boy-boy... girl-girl...