Definitely a problem and I have looked into the solution as a business proposition. Most of the time the goods are sent back to the post office and I pick them up personally, sometimes they end up in a neighbours hands
. There has only been one time when something landed and my wife picked it up (nothing too embarassing and she knows I do have an enema fetish so thats not too bad, I think lacy knickers might have been a step too far, although to be honest if she did a bit of search it would not be that difficult to find them
).