I have come to the conclusion that sexuality is far from a sliding scale. Probably an equilateral triangle with the sides labelled Hetro, Homo, Bi and everyone moves in a locus between these points. Add to that a need to be Male or Female regardless of current sex and the picture gets so confused that you would be hard pressed to understand anything about the brains wiring.
In the end the only thing that makes us truly perfect is our percieved imperfections. We are driven by wants and needs in a material world and like nature, they are difficult to fully control. I always put a 'do unto others as you would unto yourself' into every question that has a moral dilema. If it appears there is no harm done, then its not only normal, it is healthy.
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