I resorted to graigslist as well. I wanted to meet a fem shemale but didn't know of any social events or places to meet. My first date was with two escorts via craigslist. The lady's and I are now more like friends then me being a client. Tia, one of the girls is going to go out in my tandem kayak with me in two weeks for a day of fun and floating. I will have wine and a few other treats to refresh our selves with on a secluded beach. It is a total rush to think of having a romantic date with a beautiful girl that is packing almost nine inches of brown candy. She is a total feminine woman to look at. For me to have a sweet shemale friend and to be friends is what I want. Sex is important but that is what lovers do isn't it?